Engaging the Power of Choice in Relationships
Oct 2nd, 2009 by Janie Behr
Engaging the Power of Choice in Relationships

Enjoy your relationships and cherish the time together!
Relationships are energy—in fact, quantum energy. When two or more agree on anything the energy focused on an outcome is exponentially magnified. A perfect but extreme example would be in the case of a riot: havoc is created when individuals come together to rebel.
Consider this, if you associate with people who live in scarcity, you create the same in your life. If you live your life with relationships that are in an atmosphere of abundance, you create abundance. It’s just that simple! This is the law of attractions’ basic foundation. What relationships are impacting your life? Who influences the way you think & feel? When I lived in an apartment complex, where people were transient or having money problems, I stayed stuck in the same energy. Once I got out among people who live in abundance, laughed and enjoyed life, my life started to change.
We all have the choice to be in healthy or unhealthy relationships and they impact our lives more than we know. By choosing a healthy support system, we absorb healthy energy. When we have a mentality of being “needy” that is what we attract, people who are needy.
Today very few people stay in the same job or in the same home throughout their lives. People change with their circumstances change. The support system I needed when my children were young is nothing like it is today as a career minded, dog loving, single baby boomer. I have changed and so have my needs, desires and goals! My basic values and morals are the same, but my interests, thoughts and feelings are different. Through technology I am able to communicate and work with people from all over the world.
I remember when I was young; my parents had a milkman who brought milk, eggs and ice cream once a week, a laundry man that picked up and delivered laundry and my favorite was the ice cream man. Life would be boring without change, but it is important to remember all the people and experienced who have touched your life along the way. I love and value all the people I have met along the way.
